The following messages of condolence and symbols
have been added in memory of Allison.

It was a great sadness to learn of Alli's passing. Her humour and warmth were always a delight and the memorial service in her honour reminded me of how much she was loved and admired. My condolences on her passing to her family and all who knew and respected her. I will remember her for the warm and vibrant person she was.

To Stevo, Charley, Lucy & Tom, the Stephens Family & Murphy Family, we send our love & condolences for your tragic loss.

Rob and Fiona Threlfall

We always knew Alli was a dynamic mother, wife, friend and passionate about her business, Red Sticks but we were blown away with seeing hundreds of bereaved faces at Alli's memorial service yesterday and hearing only a portion of the countless feats she has achieved in her short life. She has the respect of the entire Geelong community and beyond. In fact all the way to Tony Abbott's office in Canberra. Wow, what a woman. We feel in awe of you but inspired by your life. Our thoughts and love are with Stevo, Tom, Charley and Lucy at this very sad time.

To the Murphy and Stephens Families our thoughts are with you all at this sad time love from the Royal Geelong Yacht Club Family

Will miss you my loving, kind, funny friend. It is hard to recall one memory when I was in my 20s that didn't involve you. Have fond memories of the Ormond Road, B & S days. Deepest sympathies to Stepho, your beautiful children, Murphy and Stephen families. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love Melissa and Jeff Bann.

All of the team at Warralily would like to pay tribute to Alli Murphy. Alli you will be sadly missed by all that knew you.

Our love goes out to her family and her wonderful team at Redstick. Alli was such a great person and friend of our business, she will live on in our memories forever.

The Warralily Team

Ally Murphy (AKA Murphinator),You were such an impressive woman on so many fronts...your charisma, intelligence and huge sense of fun made you an absolute delight to be around...Still can't quite believe you are gone - Geelong will be a much duller place without you... Our lives were so busy of late that we didn't get to spend as much time together as I would have liked but I always regarded you as a precious and much admired friend. Rest in peace my lovely, funny friend..Heartfelt condolences to Stepho, Charley and Lucy... xxx Amanda Bavin (AKA Bavinator)

I am writing to express my deepest sympathies on the passing away of Allison 'Alli' Murphy. I have great memories of our exploits while living at Ormond Road, East Geelong, Sawyers Arms Hotel (Clatworthys) and frequenting B & S balls. Alli was so much fun and had such a lovely kind heart. Later on we forged similar careers and I was able to help Alli to secure employment positions at Warracknabeal Herald and with Senator the Hon Judith Troeth, former Senator for Victoria and former Parliamentary Secretary for Agriculture, Fisheries and Forestry. It is difficult for me to recall a time in my 20s that didn't involve Alli Murphy.
My heart goes out to the Stepho and the children as well as your families. I pray the Lord will bring you comfort in time. I am aware the Murphy family is a tight knit close family consequently my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time as well as the Stephen family.
I will love and remember my good, kind friend always.

Lots of love Jeff and Melissa Bann and family

Many moons ago we were great friends
But our destiny lay on different paths
Our connection was lost along the way

Your death has filled me with sadness
I will never know the woman you became
The woman who can never be my friend
My thoughts are full of regret

Then I remember the girl that you were
And that makes me smile
Mischievous, funny and generous
Is how I will always remember you

The girl who was taken too soon
My friend Alli
Whose laughter will be remembered forever
By all those whose life she touched

Goodbye darling girl
Always loved and never forgotten
May you rest in peace

Stevo and family, gutted is the only way we can express our thoughts on receiving the news of the passing of Alli. We hope that reading some of the incredible messages of support will assist you in this very sad time.

Dearest Alli it is a rare day where I struggle to find the words to explain the impact that you had on our lives.

When you were near us I always felt better somewhat understood, smarter, happier, clearer of thought and at ease with everything.

There are so many things that I will miss both professionally and personally but they are for my heart and mind to remember.

All of us 'Dance Mums' (so not true) will miss you terribly as no one quite made us laugh as much as you.

We will take care of little Lucy ballerina and of course as she becomes a jazz and tap expert Emma will hold her hand tightly as they tap along together - as they did last night.

Much love to Stepho, Charley, Lucy and Tom and extended family.

Dear Charley and Lucy

Your mum was one of my favourite people. She used to make an impact every time she entered a room with a coffee in one hand, her handbag in the other, a fabulous necklace and beautiful hair that I was secretly jealous of.

Mum would always tell people what she thought and, when she disagreed with us, her ability to see to the heart of things and explain what we were missing made us respect and love her even more. That is such a rare gift and something that I will miss greatly.

The last time I saw her, she was so excited about the Bruce Springsteen concert she saw with Dad the night before and she also made sure to tell us the latest news about 'the twins'. She loved you and your Dad so much and she knew that you loved her too.

Beth xx

You have reminded me Alli how precious our life is and how important it is to live each day to its fullest!I’m so sad we didn’t get to have our catch up - we’d have been a formidable team!

All of the team at Plan.it Roxie would like to pay tribute to the amazing Alli Murphy who we sadly lost this week.

Alli was an incredible woman who was crazy smart and crazy fun - not a bad golfer either!!!

Our love goes out to her family and her wonderful team at Redstick. We will all be the poorer for her passing.

Crazy smart and crazy fun! Alli you were an incredible woman! My greatest regret is not having the next couple of decades with you to become even better friends! Shine bright like a diamond!

Alli, it is with great sadness that I say farewell to a good friend and wonderful business colleague. You have left a lasting legacy for Geelong and a void that can never be filled. I will miss you and will always remember your generous, gregarious spirit and the good times we shared. Until we meet again.... Bernie xx

We have lost a sister, a boss, a mentor, and a truly great friend.

Alli and RedStick are synonymous. She poured her heart and soul into this business, and through it, she leaves behind an unparalleled legacy of contribution.

We all feel so fortunate to have worked (and played) with Alli – sometimes it was hard to separate the two.

She brought laughter, excitement and a sense of purpose to everything we did. There was never a dull day working with Alli.

From all of us Alli, we thank you for the opportunities you gave us, for your friendship, your love and generosity.

Our thoughts are with you and your beautiful family.

You will be deeply missed.

Jo, Jess, Karen, Julia and James

You achieved so much in such a short time Alli.

I will always remember the day of your Wedding where you were a beautiful vibrant Princess ready to go and conquer the world.

And you did.

My thoughts and sympathy to Stevo, her twins Charley and Lucy, and Tom.

Rest in Peace Beautiful xx

Makes me smile to think of what you achieved in Geelong in such a short time Alli. Hard to believe that you have been taken so abruptly. Created a lovely family, lasting legacies, brought fantastic people together and ensured good ideas flourished. A friend that never failed to put a grin across your chin. Xx

Alli Murphy was a fantastic lady, assisting me so much in my time here at Avalon. Often she would stop me getting in trouble, or sometimes I would leave it to her to get me out of trouble.

One day I wrote an article for the Geelong Addy. I spent hours going over it, dotting the i's and crossing the t's, and was very proud of what I had written, and the message I was sending. I sent it around to a number of people for feedback and they all remarked that it was a great article, and I definately should have it printed.

However Alli, being one of the people I asked to review, rang me immediately. "I have concerns about what you are trying to achieve here" she said honestly. And she was right. The article served no purpose, and no doubt would have not resulted in any future success. Indeed it may have had the opposite effect.

I always appreciated Alli's honest advice, her integrety, her humour and freindship. It's hard to accept that she's gone.

Words are hard to express the emotion of sadness in losing Alli so suddenly.
To Stevo, Charley, Lucy & Tom, the Stephens Family & Murphy Family, we send our love & condolences for your tragic loss.
Alli, your infectious smiles & giggles, love of life, devotion to your family & success in business will always be remembered.
Your friendship, chit-chats & advice over the years will never be forgotten. You are, were & always be a part of my life which I will cherish forever having been blessed to know you. Love you Wonder Woman 'Nonna Alli' xx

We will miss you more than words can say, your smiling face, your energy and enthusiasm for life, the love for your family and the time you gave to friends. You were taken away from us all too suddenly. You mean so much to us all, 'Fairy Godmother' to Sophie and the best friend that anyone could wish for. To Stevo, Charley, Lucy and Tom , our thoughts and prayers are with you. Alli we love you .

Alli. My friend and mentor.

Such a vivacious, fun loving, loyal and inspiring woman. It's beyond comprehension you are no longer here. I count myself truly blessed to have been part of your RedStick family.

Love to Stepho, Charley, Lucy and Tom, and to Jo and families.

Alli,you were one in a million.you set everyone such an example by your loyalty,enthusiasm,love for your family and friends,and aspiration for the future of Geelong.
You were part of our family ,and I feel privileged to be part of yours.
We will never forget you.
Judith Troeth

I was shocked to hear of Alli's passing.
Heartfelt sympathy for her family and loved ones. May she rest in peace.
Amy

Alli brought light, love and laughter to all she met. A wonderful woman, mother and regional business dynamo. Tragically lost to us too soon. Now in God's light. As the poet Thomas Osbert Mordaunt put it: "Sound, sound the clarion, fill the fife/Throughout the sensual world proclaim/One crowded hour of glorious life/Is worth an age without a name." Farewell and Rest in Peace

Alli was a much valued and respected member of the Committee for Geelong and we will greatly miss her talent, support and friendship.
Our thoughts and sincerest condolences go out to Alli’s family, friends and colleagues at this difficult time.

Alli, you were always so enthusiastic and full of life. Always positive and a trailblazer. We'll miss having you around the Geelong scene.

You returned to Geelong after time away and helped make it a better place. You were a pleasure to deal with on a professional basis, but never took yourself too seriously.

The Troeths will all miss your smiling face at school pick up.

Condolences to Stevo and family.