Vincent Charles “Vince” Wilson 4 November 1984 – 15 May 2025
Carly Arch
Vincent was born 10 years and 1 week after me. As a result we often shared birthday celebrations. This last year, in 2024, we turned 90. Significant in so many ways for the two of us. He has 3 Aunties who were all born on the same day. October 28th. We would often laugh about how we had made it very easy for him to remember our birthdays. Many Facebook posts came from Vince with ‘happy Aunties’ birthday!’ messages. I am so grateful for all the wonderful times we have had together. Our family has had countless adventures with Vince and as time went on, with Amelia and then Arthur. We look forward to more adventures with Amelia and Arthur and Sophia. Daniel and Ben in particular, grew up with Vincent as part of many of our family holidays. Peter, Alice and Sam sharing some of those as well as their own special times with him. We will continue the tradition. The Gippsland Lakes held a special place in our hearts and we will continue to honour him and think of him in all our adventures. We had many jokes over the UHF radios on our long drives 4WDing and in the outback. I’ll always think of him when we see stripped down cars used for parts by the bush mechanics. Or when out on the water, or when I am travelling for work, remembering how he’d have to guess where I was. His battle may have also helped with many other people’s health. It certainly prompted me to take care of my own checkups and as a result, he has helped extend my life. Our connection is deep and has been a cherished gift. We miss him so much but he is part of our lives always and lives on in our hearts and memories in so many ways. And for as long as I can, I will celebrate our birthday week thinking of him. The photo was from our ‘70th’ birthday party, his eyes are shut because he was in the middle of singing. Thank you for all the laughs. ❤️ We love you, Little Nephew. Xxx
Carly Arch
> VIEW ON MEMORY TIMELINEPaul O'Neill
When I first met Vincent Wilson over coffee at Nash Lane in Mildura, I was immediately struck by his frankness, clarity, and calm. We spoke openly and directly—it was a conversation that stayed with me. Just last week, sitting in that same café, I found myself thinking back to that moment. It’s deeply sad to know Vincent won’t be there for the many milestones ahead in his children’s lives, but I truly believe he’s left them with something lasting—his love, his values, and a presence that will be felt even in his absence. Watching his wife speak at his funeral was incredibly moving. Her composure, warmth, and strength were remarkable. Vincent’s legacy will live on through the resilience she showed, and through the love and character he’s clearly passed on. This isn’t just about loss—it’s about recognising the remarkable person Vincent was, and the deep, irreplaceable mark he leaves behind. His life was short, but filled with enough love to last lifetimes. Love to you all
Paul O'Neill
> VIEW ON MEMORY TIMELINESimon Arch
Vincent was here for such a short time yet contributed more to the world than many do in double that time. We have such amazing memories with Vincent, our “little nephew”! Camping, 4wding, boating, dining, enjoying a wine or whisky, and playing “where am I” on Facebook posts as we all travelled to different places around the world. He was pretty good at his guesses, cos he’d been so many places. We miss him so much, and I know this is only a fraction of the missing from Amelia, Arthur (and Sophia), Anne, Darryl and Nathan. We are here for them to share memories whenever it’s needed. With so much love.
